Anger is a synonym of low self esteem...

This might not seem true for most of you all.. It's confusing, I agree.. Let me explain.. Generally we find people in good jobs, good positions, well placed, highly qualified and intelligent who have anger issues.. People who haven't achieved much and show anger issues, we all have a reason to give, their incapability to make it big or desitny striken status which makes them angry towards the world.. But what about the former categories I mentioned.. Why should people doing materially and socially and professionally well in life have such anger issues? ??

We all are conditioned to only look at people from their outer space naturally, we cannot peep into everyone's inner spaces.. And thus, looking at that picture we find these achievers so much full of everything then what is missing in their lives which gives rise to such an inflated anger...

The inner space,yes,that is where we are, most of us are imbalanced.. We aren't aware of our own needs, weaknesses and emotions. Thus, all that built in frustration, irritation, deprivation experienced from the outer world when gets bottled up or messed up within, simply blows up in the form of anger.. Now, how it is related to self esteem????

Let's understand this first, people with good self esteem are quite aware of themselves ..they know their strengths and weaknesses and their needs and they can easily put these forward in their relationship but when people who seem extremely sorted on the surface are messed up within get easily touched with slightest of jovial remarks on them.. They are completely incapable or partially incapable to take criticism where as they do hold opinions... One reason that people are incapable of taking criticism sportingly is because that triggers thier inner insufficiency or shaky element and that reaction is given out in the form of anger or ego being hurt.

The said intellectual class, often uses mind more than heart which definitely makes them materially successful but emotionally poor. These people have given acute importance to material things in life and have taken even their own emotions for granted without understanding that sidelining these emotions don't help in coming over it but they are accumulated in some area of their system which builds up into a huge mountain of ego or anger..

Thus, EQ or Emotional Quotient is not only about managing emotions to be successful, it also has to be well understood and later assertively communicated for enhanced relationships...