Intimately Indifferent... Is another term for Detached Love.... Seems difficult ...isn't it... Yes it is... Love essentially is a bond, an invisible cord between people but in real sense, LOVE is not something that can either be defined or understood by ordinary people like us... We LOVE someone or something that pleases us, that makes us feel happy but have we observed we also like people who are not even known to us but either their looks, ideologies or something unknown attracts us towards them and that is also an invisible cord... These cords are subtle attachments and expressing that liking in words and actions are physical attachments...
In my previous post, I mentioned about sheaths of human being, considering that, we humans are very physical in the first place and slowly it should take us to the level of that profoundness of loving without being attached....
Most of us get attached and get stuck at that emotional level where both physical and mental intimacy is achieved and they feel fulfilled until people start to detect flaws into one another and reach a conflicting stage at an intellectual level or stay settled in emotional level... For us to grow in a relationship, it is very important to pass or rather crossover the most difficult stage that is INTELLECTUAL STAGE... Here we need to either select sustainable option or spiritual option... Spiritual option will be most difficult drenched with all sorts of uncertainties but that would take us to that experience of intimacy where we are only in love without the flaws interfering into that peace....
So... Being Intimately Indifferent is that beautiful phase of being in love yet being indifferent....
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