Skip to main content

Mutilating clitoral hood is not the rite of passage to womanhood...


Female Genital Mutilation or FGM, is the greatest human rights violation. It is about the genital of a woman that is mutilated without her consent. This itself is a major crime. Unfortunately, one doesn’t have an accurate number or a report of this practice, as most of the victims are very young girls, who are incapable of registering a complaint. This barbaric practice is till date conducted by the grandmother or the mother, behind closed doors and windows, where the girl’s cries remain muffled and unheard. It is a rite of passage to womanhood that begins with mutilating the vulva. Thereby, curbing her sexuality and increasing her risk at pregnancy and exposing her forever to other gynecological issues. India has no law yet banning the practice of FGM in the country. According to medicine, FGM has no medical benefits.

The process is carried out mostly by a midwife. FGM often causes severe health complications, leading to physical, psychological, and emotional breakdowns in young girls. In some severe FGM cases, girls bleed uncontrollably, and only then is the mother is forced to take her to the hospital for medical intervention. FGM is practised by the Dawoodi Bohra in India . They are a sect of Shia Islam with one million members in India. FGM is referred to as khatna, khafz, and khafd. This involves six- or seven-year-old girls, where there is total or partial removal of the clitoral hood.

In a study conducted on FGM among India’s Bohra Muslims, 75% of respondents said they had subjected their daughters to the practice. Some were repentant, but the majority agreed that this was part of becoming a woman. According to the Ismaili Shia Islam Muslim book of jurisprudence, Da’aim alIslam, written in the 10th century by Syedna Al Qadi Al Numan, a scholar and chief jurist of the 14th Imam, FGM will increase the radiance on the woman’s face, thereby nullifying all cosmetic or wellness brands that claim the secret to a woman’s facial glow. According to this archaic subjugation, it is the mutilation of the clitoris that holds the hidden secret of beauty among women. The more a woman toes the line, the higher is her chance to everlasting beauty. These are the lies that are fed to an impressionable young mind. It is also ironic that after the turn of the century, mothers even now, continue this absolutely abhorrent tradition in order to make their young daughters look radiant, as preached by a 10th-century Imam.

Most young girls are gaslighted into believing that their bodies are of no consequence. It is only to produce children, get married, and never indulge in sex for pleasure. They are born to continue the progeny and carry the practice forward. What is hidden from these victims is that FGM can cause complications before and during pregnancy. It can make it difficult to conceive and cause complications during labour and childbirth. FGM is associated with an increased risk of caesarean section, postpartum haemorrhage, recourse to episiotomy, difficult labour, obstetric tears/lacerations, instrumental delivery, prolonged labour and an extended maternal hospital stay.

The severity of risks increase with the type of FGM. In type 1, it involves the removal of the clitoral hood. In other types, it can be the total removal of the clitoral glans, which is the external and visible part of the clitoris, which is a sensitive part of the female genitals. At least 200 million girls and women alive today, living in 31 countries, have undergone FGM. This is a harsh reality check of the violation of a women’s body autonomy rights. It is even sadder that the mother, who is supposed to be the guardian, passes on her sexual biases to her young girls. These mothers and grandmothers who practice FGM need to be taught to give more importance to the development of the brain of their young girls than the clitoris, which must just be left alone to flower and bloom with age. Mohua Chinappa is an author and a podcaster of a show called The Mohua Show. (https://www. themohuashow.com/media/).  

Mohua Chinappa

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Here’s to the wild ones. Here’s to you...

Here’s to the fallen, the broken and the shattered.  To the warriors who know that to be cracked is to let the light in deeper.  Who know that the best fruit is on the very tip of the branch and the brightest jewels are hidden within the roughest of surfaces. Here’s to the ones intoxicated by the burning of the winds of change in their lungs and who live in the lands that others fear to tread. Here’s to the ones who raise their voices to the heavens even though they don’t always know the words. Here’s to the rare beings who walk the road less travelled, taking the adventure that rises on this path with purpose and passion. Here’s to the rebels, the heartsick originals, and the bittersweet loneliness that fuels their spirit.  To the ones who won’t conform, back down or step aside.  To the ones who were not born to fit in but to gloriously stand out.  To those who are here to be midwives of the genuine. Here’s to the awakened ones whose purpose is to f...

6 situations in a relationship when it’s worth lying

  Sometimes lying. In some cases, lying can help you cheer up your partner or even may save your life. 1. When you leave an aggressive partner. If you have decided to get out of a destructive relationship and you’re preparing to step back, you’re free to lie. Your main task is to draw his attention to save money, to gather your things, to make contacts with people who will help you get out of this relation. The aggressor’s reaction is unpredictable if he understands that the victim is escaping. Therefore, it is better to stay alive and healthy than fair and honest. #2. When the partner asks, “Have you ever loved someone more than you love me?” If you have not previously agreed on absolute honesty, then answer “no”. Let’s admit that there was a stronger feeling in your life than the current one. Who will feel better if you tell the truth? #3. When you make a surprise Usually, the man who a surprise is being prepared may open his third eye and also the ability to see through the wall...

How to Improve Your Self-Confidence at Work ...

Increase your self-confidence to reap the benefits at work. Do you fear the prospect of making a mistake at work? Perhaps you’re worried about getting something wrong or upsetting a colleague with honest feedback. While it’s natural to feel this way, a lack of self-confidence could actually hold you back in the workplace and prevent you from reaching your full potential.   After all, having insecurities at work can make it hard to focus on your development and future success. On the other hand, being confident in yourself and your abilities helps you to feel good, increases your job satisfaction, and builds up your all-around happiness in your role. So, if you want to improve your self-confidence at work, check out our advice below. Be kind to yourself We’re often our own toughest critic. But if you’re constantly thinking negative thoughts about your abilities and success, it can be hard to improve. So don’t put yourself down! Cut out negative language about ...