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FEAR describing two bollywood metaphors...












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Well.. There are many but what I distinctly remember are these two extremely routine phrases which were used to describe FEAR... a common FEAR, an emotion that each one of us has but we are either too masked to show it or we are escaping it in our own ways...
One is from this movie. 'jab we met' when towards the end when this girl is getting married to her so called lost love but the truth that she knows within is that someone who has walked away once is definitely not the right choice to someone she knows who can go out of his way to make her happy... This situation between the practical YES vs INTUITIVE NO is similar to the fear of missing a train (here a chance or an opportunity) to go on a journey of your innermost life... The Anxiety expressed in this statement 'AISA LAG RAHA HAI Jaise KUCH GALAT HO RAHA Hai, JAISE KOI TRAIN CHOOT RAHI HAI' is so much relatable to the situation where one can see something long awaited is so close yet slipping away from our hands...
Another not very famous dialogue from not a mass appreciated movie is, "aisa laga jaise kisi ne mere haath se remote cheen ke koi horror show laga diya ho".. From DEAR ZINDAGI... This situation is to simply express an unexpected blow or reality that is too scary or ugly to live but we are forced into it... From a child s perspective this remote and horror show is so much an accurate description of facing a dark fear....
The point here is we so called educated lot are so well informed and well read but we are so scared to even acknowledge and face our own hidden fears forget getting rid of them.. We are usually running away from this reality and this is where. ADDICTIONS, RELATIONSHIP ISSUES, ETC arise and destroy us even more....
Let's dig in to explore our ugly world within...






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