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Karma... Let's decode it...


Karma, the way we all simply understand is the action of each individual while they exist... But it is more broader than that.. It is action, words and most important which we forget all the time.. INTENTIONS....
There are all types of people around us.. Some who are extremely vigilant about their actions and words.. They are considered well mannered and well behaved citizens and people idealize them... It is worth the appreciation as it involves tremendous self control and awareness but... My concerns usually are the intentions.. Coz those are hidden aspects of an individual... Its motivating to be liked and appreciated by others around and thus being watchful in words and actions happen swiftly and get embedded in us. The real challenge is the INTENTION part.
If we could keep a recorder in our minds that can help us read our most subconscious thoughts for someone, for us, we will never come out of guilt ..is my challenge. Most of us feel and deceit our own selves with a false cover that we have pure minds.. Well... Its seldom close to purity... There's tremendous filth within each of us...
To prove it to ourselves, whenever we are alone, we either fantasize something or we end up doing something we cannot that is prohibited in our surroundings... Of course it is subjective whether prohibitions are correct or not but my point here is... Our thought process. We are all basically selfish and we are more or less involved in thinking about things that benefit us.. To the extent even altruism is selfish. But atleast it helps in bringing about noble deeds so its worth it.
As a human being we have a very limited capacity to understand another being in their true sense. Thus, most of us judge or view a fellow human on the basis of their words and behavior and we conclude that as the complete personality of that individual.. This is how many souls are labeled as mentally imbalanced ones. But who are we to judge, categorize and label someone on the basis of some limited bookish knowledge and our so called analytical skills.. We are NO ONE... for a simple reason that we forget to consider the most important element in that individual and that is INTENTION...
this can be the most puzzling area of any individual but its better to give them benefit of doubt in general conditions rather than go behind them to teach them a lesson, with a tit for tat attitude...
For instance, we realized someone lying to us for their benefit and we want to either give it back to them in harsh words or by making them go through the same experience but let me ask you something.. How sure are we, that we are giving them the deserved treatment for their actions...??? We feel we did well but honestly we didn't... Coz, sometimes, we leave them with very silly punishment for the deadly intentions they had. Trust me, whenever any one is hurt, pained and suffers due to harsh words and behavior from someone else, the best treatment is to LET GO... coz that remains registered in the book of KARMA added with the INTENTIONS and then KARMA has its laws to appropriately give it back to them with interest, which we as humans cannot.
We end up doubting people, losing our peace with such painful experiences but it is important for each of us to let UNIVERSE take its actions for the ones who caused the harm and likewise we can introspect our intentions for being a victim to such an experience, who knows somewhere we have paid for our selfish intention.

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