None of our EMOTIONAL QUOTIENT is ever at par ....

It's rarely the INTELLIGENCE QUOTIENT which creates issues in relationships ,most of the times it is EMOTIONAL QUOTIENT as that is the most fluid element in our system. It is so much flowy that it seldom remains in one state for a long period.

With people who carry a high EQ within too are usually controlling their outbursts not that they don't experience the emotional shifts... With people having low EQ ,they lack the control and the outburst is revealed. Whenever, there is any sort of difference created between people which is ABSOLUTELY NORMAL, but Distance created is HARMFUL. Especially,if they are fond of each other and if they can let differences create distance then it is huge gap between them to communicate their emotional states when needed.

No two people, a mother and a child, a husband and a wife, two best friends, or lovers ,no two people can ever have same emotional state and this is the time when one or both at times are unaware and uninterested in even understanding others emotional condition, in such a situation there is complete possibility that the relationship will go for a toss.

If we see the picture below, it clearly states how we have all of the stated traits in different proportions at different times.. So, no one is ABSOLUTELY RIGHT or ABSOLUTELY WRONG ....It is imperfect time zones and mood zones... It is not very difficult to come out of it and get back to normalcy unless one of the people who is victimized with outbursts takes it to their EGO and gives up on the bond. Understanding others is not easy, similarly, how can people understand us if we don't let them within our emotional zone.. Yes, there's a way to introduce people to our ugly emotional states but it is impossible to keep it under wraps and assume that we will manage it ever by remaining uptight always... This is stress creating situation which also hampers the relationship in a negative manner.
Thus, understanding the picture below to understand our and others emotions might help ..

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